on anger

Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.

the opposite

“Woe to the angry, for they shall not inherit the earth.”

The beatitude “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit
the earth”

(Matthew 5:5) illuminates a profound truth about the character God values.

The meek are those who possess gentleness of spirit, sincere humility, and steadfast patience, even in the face of trials or injustices .

They do not seek to impose their will by force or violence, but trustingly submit to God, acknowledging his sovereignty and justice. This meek
character reflects a soul at peace, aligned with God’s will, and destined to inherit the earth the fullness of God’s blessings in his kingdom.

Conversely, woe to the angry, for they are dominated by
destructive impulses and an inability to control their emotions. Uncontrolled anger breeds conflict, division, and a spiral of violence that separates a person from inner peace and from others.

Angry people often seek to impose their dominance or to satisfy their pride, which makes them incapable of inheriting the promised land. Their temperament prevents them from living in the passibility and tranquility
required to participate in God’s reign. What, then, is their
inheritance?

Psalm 1:6 The LORD knows the way of the righteous, but the way of sinners leads to destruction .

(Another version says: ” leads to ruin” »
God calls His children to embody gentleness and reject anger, because gentleness opens the way to reconciliation, unity, and peace.

The angry person, on the other hand, sows chaos and creates a tense and stressed environment and ends up excluding himself from God’s blessings. As James 1:20 says, “

The anger of man does not work the righteousness of God .” Thus, gentleness is a path to God’s inheritance, while anger leads to destruction and loss of God’s promises. (Matthew 5:5)

Sinful anger can be controlled , and this is often seen in professional fields where people in contact with the public manage to keep their calm , even in situations that could degenerate into verbal or physical conflict they manage to control themselves.

However, outside of this professional setting, some of these same people have difficulty controlling themselves , and can then become angry, insult, outrage, or hurt others.

This shows that calmness, gentleness, temperance, and love of neighbor should be virtues coming from the heart through love and sincerity and not just the result of a constraint imposed by the professional context .

Let’s take another example: a physically or mentally strong man can easily get angry and raise his voice, abusing his superiority over someone weaker.            This is cowardice .

Conversely, when faced with a stronger man, he could show more restraint . A true Christian, who has received the gift of the Holy Spirit, is endowed with self-control and does not give in to sinful anger, aggressive impulsiveness, or a spiteful attitude no matter a person’s physique .

The uncontrolled explosion of emotions and violence do not come from God
but from the devil. He who acts in this way does not do the gentle will of the Spirit, but rather follows the influence of evil
Feeling righteous anger at injustice, as Jesus did, is not a sin in itself.

But it is a different kind of anger than lashing out at others, causing intimidation, irritation, frustration, and sometimes even tears .

Self-control, temperance, and gentleness are the essential qualities that must prevail over bitterness . I repeat: sin is the fruit of the human will. You can
be without sin because God created you to choose between good and evil, so if you know God’s law, you do not sin.

Proverbs 29:11 A fool vents his anger, but a wise man restrains and calms it.
The different types of anger
Anger is a complex emotion that can be either noble or sinful, depending on its origin, expression, and impact. It becomes sinful when it goes beyond the limit of what the situation requires and hurts others, God, or oneself.

Noble, non-sinful anger is a controlled and justified reaction against sin or injustice. It does not exceed the limits of reason and remains in accordance with the principles of divine justice. Jesus himself manifested such anger when he drove the merchants out of the Temple (Matthew 21:12-13).

In this case, anger becomes a spiritual guide, directed by a zeal for
holiness and the honor of God.

Sinful anger
Sinful anger, on the other hand, is impulsive, destructive, and disordered. It manifests itself in a raised tone of voice, hurtful words, or irritable behavior. It can also be expressed indirectly, such as through contemptuous looks, vulgar jokes, aggressive gestures (slamming doors, breaking objects, banging on a wall, etc.), or even through excessive insults and honking . Jesus sternly warns against this when he says:

Matthew 5:22 “ Whoever says to his brother, ‘You fool,’ shall be liable to hell fire.” »

Sinful anger is a grave evil, because it breeds aggression, violence, loss of control, and destroys harmony with God, oneself, and others. It is also demonic, because it leads the soul away from peace and virtue and ultimately from eternal salvation.

Anger is often linked to a wounded ego, pride especially during humiliation, disagreements, or situations perceived as unfair.

Lack of patience with everyday annoyances can turn small frustrations into outbursts of anger. Discontent and sadness, a persistent dissatisfaction with a reality or fact can lead to bitterness and anger.Anger is also linked to bitterness and deep contempt, often caused by unresolved emotional
wounds or opposition encountered.

Don’t feed anger
Anger must be controlled and not harbored internally, as it can easily become destructive. Scripture says, “ Do not let the sun go down on your anger ” (Ephesians 4:26). It is essential not to fuel anger by imagining insults or ruminating on thoughts of revenge, for this defiles the soul and quenches
the Spirit of God.

Romans 12:19 Repay no one evil for evil. Seek what is good in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men.
Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but give place to
wrath; for it is written: Vengeance is mine , I will repay, says the Lord. But if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him drink; for in doing
so you will heap coals of fire on his head.

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Self-mastery through the Spirit

A child of God must arm himself with the Holy Spirit to control his anger and discern between sinful anger and noble anger . Christian virtues such as self-control, patience, gentleness, and temperance are radically opposed to the
destructive effects of anger. Gentleness and peace, even in turbulent situations, should be the behavior adopted by the believer, thus maintaining harmony with God, others, and oneself.

Matthew 19:14 Jesus said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of heaven .

Jesus said that the Kingdom of God belongs to little children (1 to 5 years old) who do not manifest these angry reactions, they have a spirit of gentleness and peace , a tranquility and an innocence, they embody joy and love in every sense of the word.

In a world marked by a mentality of revenge, where “if you are insulted, you must insult”, and “if you are hit, you must hit”, the Christian is called to distinguish himself. In a professional context, maintaining peaceful harmony with coworkers can be challenging, especially in situations where
mutual understanding is difficult.

When surrounded by sinful individuals who are spiritually indifferent, seeking peace and harmony while remaining gentle and meek is important. If others take advantage of your meekness, kindness, or gentleness often because of your peaceful nature it can become painful to be around them. When this leads to tensions and stress, it can become mentally exhausting in the
long term.

A workplace is like a second home, as it occupies a significant part of your time. Therefore, maintaining spiritual peace is
essential to avoid falling into sins. In this sinful and capitalistic world, finding the perfect balance is difficult when financial survival is necessary. The best
choice is to seek a job where you feel at peace, ideally one
where you can work alone.

If that is not possible, you must find peace as much as it depends on you with others but if you realize that dispite that, it impossible, the work
environment becomes a source of constant tension and
stress, leading to long-term suffering, the best solution is to
leave and seek a better place.

This is my personal opinion
Matthew 13:16 You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how will it be salted again ? It is good for nothing but to be thrown out and
trampled underfoot by men.

You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden;
neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick, and it gives light to all who are in the house.

Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven .

Sinful anger, whether verbal, physical or indirect, destroys not only the one who displays it, but also his family and those around him. Men sometimes get angry at objects or tools, thus proving how irrational and demonic sinful anger is. They do this by diverting their anger towards what they consider
unattainable.

In a world where physical aggression is condemned by human justice, some people find other ways to hurt others, such as through hurtful words or indirect acts of revenge. This shows that sinful anger manifests itself in perverse ways, even when fear of human justice prevents physical acts.
Practical examples

1. The Child and the Adult: When a child between the ages of 3 and 5 gets upset, screams, or becomes agitated, he is acting thoughtlessly, because he is not using moral deliberation.

But when an adult gives in to anger in an uncontrolled manner, he is acting like an unruly child, although he has the capacity to think and control himself.

2. Antiquity and the slave: In ancient times, a slave could
not allow himself to express his anger without risking his
physical or professional survival .

This shows that man is capable of controlling his anger when forced to do so as in work context in our days, which proves that self-control is
possible in every situation.

Cowardice in Anger: Often, men dare to express their anger against the weaker, but hold back against the stronger, revealing an underlying cowardice. This proves that anger is controllable and is not an uncontrollable fatality.

The wrath of God
God’s anger is different from that of men. It is always just, directed against man’s sinful anger and unbelievable sins , and aims to restore divine order in the universe. God cannot remain indifferent to human disorder and rebellion . His wrath, combined with His justice and judgment, is an expression of His holiness and faithfulness to His own character . As it is written: “ For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and
unrighteousness of men.” » (Romans 1:18).

Sodom and Gomorrah are excellent examples of this. Rage, clamor, and fury are extreme expressions of anger that alienate the soul from God and destroy inner peace. Rage manifests itself in an uncontrolled outburst of anger, often
accompanied by hurtful words and destructive actions . Scripture strongly condemns these forms of anger. In Ecclesiasticus 27:30 it says, “ Grudgery and anger are abominable things in which the sinner is a master. ”

These emotions damage the soul and prevent true fellowship with God. Ecclesiasticus 28:5 warns, “ A man bears a grudge against another man, and he seeks healing from the Lord ? »

This verse highlights the inconsistency of asking God for forgiveness while refusing to forgive one’s neighbor .

Finally, Ecclesiasticus 28:7 exhorts: ” Remember the commandments, and bear no grudge against your neighbor; remember the covenant of the Most High, and forgive the trespass .

” These words remind us that forgiveness is an essential divine command , which frees the soul and restores spiritual harmony.

Clamor is often associated with anger. In Ephesians 4:31, it is listed alongside bitterness, wrath, and malice, showing that it is a product of uncontrolled emotions, especially rage and frustration.

Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice

Clamor refers to loud, aggressive, and emotional outbursts  often caused by anger or conflict. It is an expression of anger, clamor often manifests as shouting, yelling, or heated disputes. It leads to division and hostility, when anger is not controlled, it can escalate into clamor, causing fights and broken relationships.

It is linked to a lack of self-control, people in a state of clamor are often driven by emotions rather than reason.

Proverbs 29:11 A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back Clamor is a result of anger being expressed loudly and chaotically, rather than being handled with wisdom and peace.

Sinful anger, pride, clamor, annoyance , bitterness, resentment, grudge, sensitivity, fury etc…are incompatible with the christian life. They breed sin, destroy relationships, rot the soul and prevent forgiveness. The Christian is called to renounce these forms of sinful anger and embrace patience,
gentleness, and forgiveness, always remembering the
covenant of the Most High.

John 18:22-23: One of the officers who stood by struck Jesus with the palm of his hand, saying, “Answer you the high priest in this way?” Jesus answered and said to him, “If I have spoken evil, show wherewith it is
evil; and if I have spoken well, why do you strike me? ”

This passage highlights Jesus’ exemplary self -control in the face of unjustified violence. Rather than responding to aggression with anger or revenge or insults, he asks a rational question that calls for reflection on the injustice of the act. “

Why do you strike me?” » This calm, thoughtful response illustrates that self-control, even in challenging circumstances, reflects true inner strength and a fear of God.

Sinful anger, on the other hand, breeds division and leads to unholy behavior. By following Jesus’ example, we learn to respond to injustice with wisdom and grace, refusing to give in to destructive impulses, and relying on God’s commands to maintain righteous and conduct without sin.

John 8:12 Jesus spoke to them again, saying, I am the light of the world; he who follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life …

Oh how many follow the example of Jesus in their lives….how many respond with total mastery, with gentleness and calm….with love and peace? With humility and fear of the Lord….

John Wesley, Excerpt, Sermon 22, The Sermon on the Mount

Our Lord warns us against this error and shows us how far meekness extends, when he says: “You have heard that it was said by them of old, You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be punished by the judge. But I say to you, that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause will be punished by the judgment; and whoever says to his brother, Raca, will be punished by the council; and whoever says to him, Madman, will be punished by hell fire (Mat 5:21-22).”

Our Lord here places on a par with murder even that anger which does not go beyond the heart, which does not show itself outwardly by ill-treatment, nor even by the liveliness of words:

“Whoever is angry with his brother,” with every living man, since we are all brothers; whoever feels in his heart any rancor, any disposition contrary to love; whoever is angry without cause, without sufficient motive, or more strongly than this motive requires, “will be punished by the
judgment,” he will be, from that moment, exposed to the just judgment of God.

As for anger against sin, it is permissible; in this sense, we can become angry and not sin. In this sense, we are told that our .

The Lord Himself was angry: “He looked upon them all with indignation, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts.”

He was grieved over sinners and angry with sin. And this is, without doubt, a disposition that is right before God.

“And he that shall say to his brother, Raca” — whosoever shall give way to anger, so as to let slip some expression of
contempt.

The commentators observe that Raca is a Syriac word, which properly signifies empty, vain, foolish; so that it is the most harmless expression we can use towards any one with whom we are angry.

And yet every man who shall use such an expression shall, as our Lord affirms, “be punished by the council,” or rather shall be judged by the council: he shall be exposed to a more severe sentence from the Judge of all
the earth.

“And he that shall call him mad”; — whosoever shall yield to the Devil to the point of deliberately giving way to insults, to outrages, or to offensive words, shall be punishable by hell fire, shall be, from that moment, exposed to the most terrible punishments. It is to be noted that our Lord represents all
these crimes as subject to capital punishment.